You are 75 years old today and we are trekking around the great city of Boston, Mass. – not bad for an old guy!  I love you and respect you with all my heart.  I dedicate the word of the day to you – FATHER – as you are a prime example of everything a father should be.

 

We started in Little Italy, on the North end (appropriate since that was the name of our restaurant, back in the day).  We stopped at Regina’s (world-famous) for pizza, but successfully avoided all of the pastries, cookies, cakes and pies that filled the bakeries lining the streets.  There were amazing smells and sights and a very authentic local population, many speaking italian and talking with their hands flying in every direction.  It was like being in Italy itself.

We got a little (a lot) lost and wished that my sister-in-law was there with us to be our tour guide… We finally found our trolley stop and took it on a circuit around the hot-spots – Boston Commons, Fenway Park, Faneuil Hall, Bunker Hill and many other parts of the Freedom Trail.  I apologize that I have no pics to post yet (maybe never) since I dropped my camera in the sink and am trying to dry it out.   I bought a cheap-o digital that had very little memory, so I have a few, but those are not going to be great, as many were taken through the trolley window.  Once I download the software and upoad the pics, I will post.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Next, we took a harbor tour (camera was out of memory at this point) and ended up at the U.S.S. Constitution and also toured the museum. It was getting late, so we headed back to our rental car. THAT was a experience!  I will spare you the details, but needless to say it was frustrating and strenuous – but we did get our exercise in for the day!  We were rather overwhelmed with the size and scope of the city coupled with some bad maps that were missing lots of the minor streets.  The local residents were quite helpful, but rather confused themselves about locations – but we finally made it back.

Finally, we traveled to Marshfield, Mass (my in-laws had lived her many years ago) and found the Ming Dynasty Restaurant still in business.  Their food was still excellent. As we left the restaurant, it began to sprinkle.  By the time we reached the campground, it was a drizzle.  Through the night it was a full-blown rain and this morning…a deluge (expeted to last about 2 more days)! However, Dad still says we are going to Salem, “We can’t let a little rain stop us.”  (Did I say deluge???)

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Another long drive was in front of us today, so we had a hearty breakfast with those farm-fresh eggs (that we bought in Thruman) before we set out on our trek.  At the KOA exit, I inquired of the office staff about the picture of the lighthouse that was on our rental.  She told me that it was located on Cape Elizabeth in Portland, so we agreed to take a small detour to see the real thing. I also realized that I had completed a personal bucket-list item…with the drive through Vermont and New Hampshire, I have now visited all 50 US States!  I will admit that some of them were “drive-bys”, but I am counting them all the same – so there!

Though overcast on Bar Harbor, as we continued down the coast, the sun showed up again and the leaves continued their fashion show.  We crossed streams and rivers that were brimming to the top – some dotted with docks and small ships with seagulls soaring above them.  At one point we crossed a very modern looking suspension bridge that was directly next to an old iron-rivet span bridge and I thought about the contrast of worn and new, rustic and sleek, old and young and wondered if the old bridge resented its younger brother or embraced the change and, in converse, if the newer bridge appreciated the legacy of that which had come before him…

Quaint, patriotic towns continued to pop up on our route and the huge but neatly manicured lawns were a lush green with NO weeds to be seen and often a person tending to it with a riding mower .  Biker riders sprinted up steep hills with seemingly no effort and children played in school playgrounds under the watchful eye of their supervisors. Occasionally, we saw yellow caution signs for MOOSE CROSSING or Snowmobiles or Farm Tractors on our route. People walked their dogs, held hands and ate ice cream cones.  I mention all this because that is what we came to see – not just the whiz of the Interstates, but real people in real places doing real things.  This is  a great country and we need to appreciate that sometimes.

The white, black and red Lighthouse was a striking contrast to the rocky, craggy coast that it was perched upon and the blue waters beyond.  The sun was perfect and a sea-breeze tousled our hair.  I may have annoyed Dad, but I insisted on moving the RV to just the right spot to get our banner lighthouse lined up with the real thing.  He accommodated my indulgence and then we were off to backtrack to the route to Boston.

 

 

 

 

 

We arrived at our campsite just before sunset, so there was a mad dash to get “hooked-up” before we lost the light.  We are getting pretty efficient at that by now, so it went smoothly.  We were both starving because we had basically skipped lunch to make up driving time.  Since we are technically in Plymouth, Mass (near Cape Cod) – I opted to make a Thanksgiving dinner (in an RV using only 2 pans and a microwave)!  Turkey cutlets with gravy, stuffing made with bread bought on day 1 of our trip, candied yams (recipe to follow – they were wonderful and simple), peas and cranberry juice.  We decided that the word “thanksgiving” would be our word of the day – we have a lot to be thankful for… our family, our friends, our health, our love, our newest addition on the way, the list goes on – we are blessed. Dad will be 75 years old tomorrow and I secretly am thankful that he is still with us and that I can spend this time with him.

 

 

 

 

 

Yams in a Pan  (it was either the fresh farm produce, the fresh air, the fact we were starving or I am a damn good cook – maybe a little of each – but, these were one of the best yam dishes I ever made or ate…)

2 medium yams – washed and sliced into thick slices (1/3″)

3 tablespoons each: butter, brown sugar, maple syrup, water and frozen OJ concentrate

2 dashes of salt and 1 teaspoonful of pumpkin pie spice

Put all ingredients (at once) into a saute pan that you can cover loosely with a lid and stir together to coat yam slices. Start pan on med-high heat until OJ melts and then cover loosely with a lid to let some steam out and reduce heat to med-low.  Leave lid on, but stir occasionally and let out enough steam so that a syrup forms. Turn off heat when yams are fork tender.  Serve and enjoy.

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The farther North we traveled, the more vivid and vibrant the fall colors became.  My camera does not really do them justice, but when the sun hits them in just the right way, the indescribable colors emerge:  vivid reds, glistening golds, muted browns and a full spectrum of greens that are contrasted by the gray, white, black and sand rocks, boulders and tree trunks. I hope that all of you will get to see this once in your lifetime. Everywhere you look there are hills filled with trees that form a patchwork tapestry of beauty – so our word for the day is SPECTRUM; not only for the obvious array of color, but also for the diversity of people that we are meeting, the places that we are going and the experiences we are sharing.

Logging trucks passed us on the road as we go through a myriad of small towns with names like Pleasant River.  Motorcyclists sped by us, a contrast of scale for sure – but they were not hindered by our size as they zipped and darted around and in front of us. Clapboard houses painted in muted yellow, blues and white, most displaying an American flag, banner and/or a Fall display or Halloween scene, gave us a taste of Americana.  Every few miles, we saw rivers, streams and lakes all around us – some as calm as ice and others babbling and churning over rocks and fallen trees.  Leaves floated down around us and swirled on the road in front of us, like fairies in a wonderland.

 

 

 

 

 

As we neared the coast, the trees lessened in number and the population density increased somewhat, though still rather small in comparison to an urban center.  We wanted to make camp before dark, so we decided to buy fresh, live lobsters and cook them in our RV.  Though slightly space-challenged, we accomplished our quest and cracked the first crustacean just as the sunset was waning.  Watching the sunset and eating a lobster dinner – perfection!

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Perseverance

The word of the day is Perseverance.

Discussing our plans over a breakfast of coffee and bagels (I spread some of the chevre that we got at the goat farm yesterday- delicious) – we decided to go to New Hampshire instead of St. Albans, VT.  We traveled quite a significant distance to get the bridge which traversed Lake Champlain, only to find that the bridge was still under construction and hence, closed.  Not to be daunted, we headed for the “free” ferry in hopes that they would accommodate a vehicle as large as ours…thankfully, they did.  As warned by both my brothers, we kept a wary eye out for “Champy” (akin to the Scottish Nessie) and thankfully was spared the sea serpent’s wrath…

Our next challenge came at the campsite with our first campfire of the trip.  Wet wood is not the best medium for success, but Dad gave it his all, including splitting kindling with a small pocket knife and using 2 USA Today’s and a local Sunday newspaper to fuel the fire.  But alas, lots of smoke and no flames…Next we both blew on the fire and fanned it with cardboard, trying to coax the embers to catch – nada.  I took off to the laundry room to collect lint from the dryers as a fuel source (note that the camp store is now closed so we can’t buy lighter fluid, but it has already gone onto the list for the next shopping stop!) – lint is an old boy-scout trick, so I was sure it would work.  Meanwhile, Dad patiently fanned and blew, stoked and stirred with his walking stick…and by the time I returned, he had flames!  I rushed to wad up my lint ball and toss it into the fray- to which another plume of flame arose!  Dad graciously credited me with getting the fire to start, but we both knew that it was his perseverance and calm persistance that did the trick.  We finally could sit back in our camp chairs and enjoy the full moon, the dancing flames and the glowing embers flickering in the night…

 

I must mention that while in the laundry room, I came across some additional inspirational words that I would like to send along to my pregnant daughter and son-in-law.  Found on a poster about the area’s annual Lupine Flower Festival in June:  “Hope is the Seed; Joy is the Flower” may those words bless you with a healthy and beautiful child.

Tomorrow our destination is Bar Harbor, Maine in the Acadia National Park system.  The campground is harbor-side, so we are looking forward to the coastal view and “Lobstah”.

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The Adirondack sun greeted us again as we unhooked and
ventured toward a working maple farm to eat a pancake breakfast and see the process.  Dad re-visited a little of his youth in remembering about the trees they would tap on their farm to boil down to make their own maple syrup – although everything is high-tech now as was evident by the two maple farms that we ended up visiting.

Next stop was a goat farm/cheese making location – Nettle Meadow Farm.  We got an up close tour of the animals, watched wool being spun into yarn and tasted some wonderful complimentary finger-foods made with different cheese varieties, then to the store to buy some cheese.

 

 

 

 

Down the road, we stopped at the Methodist Church to watch Reynolds and Dunn – singer/songwriters from the Adirondack Mountains – check out their website:  www.reynoldsanddunn.com if you’d like to hear some inspirational/ gospel standards and some original work – we thoroughly enjoyed them.  It is from an original composition by Pat, that we found our word(s) of the day, The problems that your face the sorrows that you know, can be the masters of your life if you let them take control.”  My interpretation of these words:  stop thinking and acting negatively, believe in yourself and your higher power and make the best of all situations and don’t let things hinder your positivity.  Leave the past behind you and start a new (and better) path. Thanks Pat for the inspiration! (They also had complimentary yummy baked goods and beverages, but we by-passed them,as we are trying to “be good”).

Next on to a local turkey, pumpkin, squash, etc farm store.  Turkeys flapped and gobbled in the front pen (others were in the freezer), I saw enormous rutabagas and zucchini and they also sold some meats from local vendors.  So we purchased a half-dozen farm-fresh eggs, 2 pork chops, a bag of Yukon golds and an acorn squash (all of these are on our “be good” list), we were on our way again. Last stop was Town Hall to see a quilting display and listen to a local band play folk/ bluegrass/country at the fireman’s BBQ (not on the be good list…). It was there that I found a Wi-Fi hot-spot and got 2 whole bars on the Net, so we stayed in the parking lot so I could post the blog from the last two days – Whew!  All in all, it was a very pleasant, inspirational and educational day – all local, no frills, but small town friendly.

 

 

 

 

 

We are now back in the campground, listening to fires crackling and critters scampering and water lapping – HEAVEN ON EARTH.  Tomorrow, we hope to make it to St. Albans,VT.  We may have to stay in a budget motel or a Wal-Mart parking lot, as a lot of the northern campgrounds are now closed for the season – WIMPS!  Talk to you again soon.

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Another beautiful day found us discussing our plans over
breakfast.  We agreed to travel only a short distance today and find a nice campground as a stepping stone to adventures in the Adirondack Mountains. A brochure told of a Farm Tour in Thurman which seemed to have all the elements of local crafts, foods and music planned for Oct 8 and 9.  We will be
staying in this area all of today and tomorrow and leaving Sunday AM towards
Vermont/Canada.  At a rest stop on the way to Warrensburg, NY, I stopped to talk to the INFO booth, who gave us some tips and more detailed maps of the area. In one of his brochures, there was a listing of local campgrounds – I
called the first one on the list – NO ANSWER. Then a second – DITTO.  The third place didn’t answer either, but had a voicemail option to which she promptly called me back.  So, Daggett Lake Campground will be our home for the next two nights – and what a home it is.  Our sight is lakefront with fall
trees and evergreens enveloping us.  Chipmunks and squirrels scamper all about and chatter at us.  I put out some apple scraps to see if I could
coax a few in for photos (success!). Birds dart about in the branches and occasionally dip down to partake of the local berries that are scattered around.
The smell of campfires and musty leaves and pine fill our senses.  The sun is sparkling on the water that laps the shore just feet from the back of our RV.
This place is truly a jewel and also gives credence to our plan to not
have a rigid and formalized travel plan. The best things are around the NEXT bend in the road.  So, our word of the day is SPONTANEOUS – for we would have notfound this jewel unless we had made the off the cuff choices that we did this morning.

I also have to mention that there is a couple with their
grandkids in the site next to us.  They actually come up from Schenectady every weekend.   One grandson appears to be about 4 years old and is chasing about with his fishing pole, the girl is about 5 and is eating a cherry popsicle, the last boy is about 7 and is helping his Grandpa gather firewood for tonight’s big bonfire. Grandpa and I have a little talk in between the kids’ appeals for more things to do and he tells me how much he enjoys his grandchildren and thatbeing a grandparent is a wonderful thing. He smiles as they start out on a hike to the recycle bins together and dragging their Red Flyer Wagon behind them.  That is what this blog is about – family,family connections and the special bonds things like camping together in the woods can create.

Inspired by Grandpa and his grand-kids, Dad and I took a
walk through the RV park to the Dog Beach. The paths were convoluted with rocks and roots covered by dry leaves, so it was slow going.  Thankfully Dad still had his walking stick that he acquired in the woods while hiking to the Lighthouse, yesterday.  When we arrived
at our destination, the sun was low in the sky and the lake water glistened gold – it reminded me of the movie “On Golden Pond” (I highly recommend this as a classic family story).  We sat for
awhile and listened to the quiet sounds of nature.  It is simple, yet poignant times like that, that I will never forget. It is a privilege to have the ability to spend this kind of time with my Dad and I think he feels the same.

See you tomorrow…hope you enjoy the pics!  FYI posting is sometimes delayed because I have to get Internet access and some places just aren’t there yet, but I am composing every night, as promised, and saving the drafts to post when I am able…

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10-6-11 To start off, let me apologize about my Woodstock story, as it is technically inaccurate. I got a history lesson from some of the local folk and was told that the festival was actually held in the, now famous, Yasgur’s farm in Bethel, NY – which is about 70 miles W of Woodstock, NY (and unfortunately, not on our route plans for today). However, I was told that several of the musicians and promoters stayed in Woodstock village and that the iconic farm has now been turned into an attraction with a hefty price of admission for those who want to revisit the 60’s. So now that I have set the record straight, I will continue our story…

We woke up to another beautiful, sunny day. It started out quite cool, but warmed up before we exited the Wal-Mart shopping extravaganza about 2PM. We packed our provisions while still in the parking lot and then stopped to have 2 DELICIOUS , local NY state apples – now THAT is how an apple is supposed to taste! Our phrase of the day came early in our journey on a sign outside a quaint white steeple church, “HEAVEN – Don’t Miss It for the World”. Now, when you stop to think about what that might mean, we all may have a different interpretation from the pastor who may have chosen this for the subject of his next Sunday sermon. To us, it pointed to the higher power of goodness and wholesomeness over some of the worldly temptations and evils that tempt us (see previous post Commitment vs. Conflict).

Dad also remembered that we forgot to finalize our word(s) of the day for 10/5 and we agreed upon Mahwah (an exit sign location that we were sure had some Indian root). A quick Internet search (isn’t that an amazing tool?!? RIP Steve Jobs) revealed (per Wikipedia) “The name Mahwah is derived from the Lenni Lenape word “mawewi” which means “Meeting Place” or “Place Where Paths Meet” – which turns out to be a perfect word for our quest!

So now we are caught up and current on the word(s) of the day (in case anybody out there cares). Driving the back roads is challenging in an RV, we had to turn around twice because the bridge height was too low. But the pay off was riding past many Fall/Halloween displays like a giant cornucopia made out of hay and filled with gourds and pumpkins, wheat shocks decorated with colorful ribbons and floral extravaganzas (mostly Mums this time of year, but, oh, SO MANY colors). Around one corner, we came upon a field of sunflowers, stretching their necks to catch some rays. We saw coal train loaders filling railcars full of the black, sooty “clean energy” while tons of water sprayed over it (assuming to reduce the dust). We could still see the aftermath of the recent Hurricane Irene as the rivers were full of mud and swelling full to their banks and the saturated soil with puddles everywhere, even though we have not seen rain since we arrived. We finished our sightseeing in this area with a 1-mile mild hike to the Saugerties Lighthouse on the banks of the Hudson River (see attached photos). Once back in the RV, we headed for camp between Saratoga Springs and Lake George. We arrived after dark, but hookup was faster and easier (Dad fixed the hose in the Wal-Mart parking lot earlier – he is an amazing man) and we ate our dinner and started planning our adventures for tomorrow…..TBC

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WOODSTOCK

10-5-11 has been a little rough.  Drama again with the rental car; traffic congestion in Newark/New York City areas; that baggage swap; sheets don’t fit the beds in our RV, water hose gasket is defective and Dad’s CPAP broke.  SO – what better place to go to unwind than WOODSTOCK, NY.  Getting out of the city, we watched the landscape soften to trees just ready to turn color and watched hawks effortlessly soar above the freeway looking down on the traffic below and waiting for a tasty meal to be run over…  Moving along in the Hudson River Valley, we saw apple orchards ready for picking. As we moved closer to the Catskills, we began to see signs about Rip Van Winkle…we hope our night’s sleep is restful (but not 40 years worth – we have places to go!).

Finally, we arrive at Woodstock, just at dusk – we will sight-see the area tomorrow.  Tonight, we have to get our RV squared away for functionality.  So we set off unpacking and stowing our “stuff” until we finished it all (except those damn sheets!).  No marijuana to smoke, too cold to strip and play in the mud, no Jimi, no Janis – but surrounded by trees and nature and a cool breeze.  Just chicken soup, crackers and water for dinner (should have stopped and picked some apples…) – but we enjoyed it.

Tomorrow is a new day – PEACE, LOVE and HAPPINESS…TBC…

I will leave you with the option of viewing some performance highlights from the Summer of ’69 (just click on the link to watch).

Woodstock Montage

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10/4 was the first day of our trip.  We had an early start on a moist morning in Las Vegas to get to the airport in anticipation of obstacles with our exceptionally large load of luggage or our march through TSA security – but pleasantly negotiated the early part of our journey quite easily. Sitting at our gate, I talked to an 84-year old woman traveling by herself, sitting in a wheel chair.  It was kind of sad to hear her story of a recent illness that had “taken her legs right out from under her” and her questionable optimism that she “will be better soon”.  She indicated that she was hungry, so I did a Wendy’s run for her (her choice) and a Latte run for another lady in the handicapped area.  Next came the mad dash to get a good seat on a full airplane, but Dad’s early boarding pass for his bad knees got him a bulk head seat with more leg room and no one ever sat in his rows middle seat.  In Denver, we had to change planes and at first were told of a 2 hour delay, which then reversed to only about 1-1/2 and we were on our way again – both in the bulkhead seats with no middle person – Sweet!  Looking down from our soaring height, it occurred to me that all the farmland sections were really a large “connect-the-dot” game-board!  Perfect squares and rectangles dotted the landscape in multiple shades of green, brown, tan, black and rust – each one the conquest of some celestial “player” – just like the kids and I used to play…

As I shuffled through magazines in the rack, I noticed the SouthWest flight magazine – SPIRIT – and it got me thinking…  Dad and I were exercising our spirit of adventure, we were both filled with the spirit of love for each other, our family backed our trip in the spirit of support and we were moving ahead in our journey with a positive spirit.  Finally, I like to think that my Mom’s spirit is with us wherever we go.  So, I asked Dad if he agreed that SPIRIT would be our first word of the day – and he agreed.  So, we pledged to forge ahead with a positive spirit.  Then, we landed in Newark and our resolve was to be tested with some issues with the rental car contract, getting lost on the way to our hotel and then the reall topper…a call from SW air crew member that I had her bag and she had mine (in Chicago by then)- so I have to take hers back to the airport tomorrow AM and pick up mine.  But, I am keeping my SPIRIT up, at least it was a trusted person who had my bag (with my computer and life in it!).  Tomorrow will be better..To be continued…

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To some, a road-trip is just a mere commute – a mindless journey from one destination to another spent focusing on the pavement and the radio while anticipating the “end of the road”. To others, it is an escape or a distraction from daily routines and problems with an expectation that the hiatus will somehow transform the future upon the return to reality. These vacations are deceptively more complicated than we anticipate when first starting out, as anyone cooped in one vehicle for days on end can attest to (sometimes the act of trying to “have fun” can be exhausting and frustrating – shit happens).

Road-trips can be purposeful and educational, with trip-tics and “to do and see” lists as you methodically map out the itinerary; or a little more relaxed and adventurous, to see the back-road oddities and local color with a loose
timeline and an edgy attitude. If you’re lucky, in addition to learning about
the sights you have seen, you can also learn about yourself and your
travel-mate if you take the time to not just idly observe, but really immerse
yourself in the experience (this then becomes the real lasting educational
value).  A road-trip has added layers of emotions that start way before we reach our destination:  anticipation, excitement, apprehension, fear, heart-lifting happiness, heart-breaking sadness, acceptance, rejection,
belonging…not-belonging.

In the end, road trips are not as much about the journey, but rather the journey’s end. Surprisingly though, we often find that the journey’s end is not always the destination we were aiming for:  that’s when we realize that home is where you are in the moment; while you were driving in that car for all those miles, you were just as much home as anywhere.  Finally, for the very lucky few, a road-trip becomes a journey of unconditional love and self-awareness, encompassing all facets of human emotion and traveling beyond any tangible destinations.  It becomes its own entity, taking on momentum and meaning far beyond expectations – in a word, life-fulfilling.  So, we approach our upcoming road trip with anticipation and exhilaration and look forward to strengthening the connections between us with lasting memories and moments…progressing from one horizon to another.

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